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We can begin to reverse learned self-alienation by practicing a simple word: YES.  Growing up with a narcissistic parent is often a deeply self-alienating experience. Over time, it can disconnect the mind from the body and fracture our sense of wholeness. We may be conditioned to ignore our needs, doubt our own experiences, suppress our growing independence, and deny who we truly are.  In an environment where our worth depends on validation and approval from others, we learn

You don’t need to forgive your narcissistic parent to heal from their abuse. “You should forgive your parents; they did their best.” “You won’t get better unless you forgive them.” Have you heard these words from people around you, those who “mean well” and believe they’re being supportive? If so, what did you feel when you heard them? Guilt? Pressure? Resentment? Shame? Many survivors of parental narcissistic abuse are left wondering whether they should  forgive their parent

Navigating Self-Doubt, Building Self-Trust Do any of the following statements sound familiar to you? I constantly question my ability to finish projects at work and am afraid people will find out how incompetent I am. When I feel angry and frustrated, I tell myself that I am overreacting and stupid for not being able to handle the stress. Making decisions is difficult for me because I fear I will make a mistake and regret it later. I am always worried about what people think

When a Narcissistic Mom Plays the Victim Living with constant guilt is a heavy place to be. It can feel like you’ve done something wrong just by existing, that you don’t deserve rest, joy, or even small pleasures. You keep pushing yourself to do more, searching for that sense of worthiness, only to feel it slip away again. As a child, you may have been your mother’s confidant who listened to her complaints, her disappointments, and her stories of sacrifice. Being helpful made

Narcissistic parents frequently have a distorted perception of their relationship with their children. They may expect their children to meet their emotional needs, acting as though they are the ones who need care and attention. When their children inevitably fall short of these unrealistic demands, the parents may resort to manipulation, using shame and guilt to regain control.

Healing from the deep wounds of narcissistic parenting often means learning to challenge the inner voice that may echo our parents or the one we created to survive.